Sunday, March 20, 2005

Starstruck: My First Week at Work

I never realized that being "the new kid" isn't easy. I studied in the same elementary and high school for 12 years so I never got the chance to experience being the new kid. When I entered college, all the freshmen were new kids so we were pretty much on the same boat. When I joined orgs, or even when I went to Singapore, I was with other people who were also experiencing everything for the first time so I never felt completely out of place.

I started my new job this week and for the first time, I am the new kid! I am the new editorial assistant of Candy magazine and I am joining a strong, six-woman team who have been together for many months, even years! It's like trying to join a barkada and not quite knowing where I fit in. For my first three days, I have been reading and documenting past magazine issues, answering the phone ("Candy, hello?"), and basically doing whatever they tell me. I also attended an editorial workshop which was interesting, but like English grammar class all over again!

The highlight of my first week at work was definitely the Candy Rap Awards 2005. There were a lot of great bands like Spongecola, Kjwan (Marc Abaya is hot!!!), Hale, and Parokya ni Edgar. A lot of celebrities and models were there too (there was definitely no dearth of cute guys)! But my personal favorites are the first batch of Starstruck Teens! I finally got to see Mark, Jennylyn, Rainier, Yasmien, and the others in person! Rainier is such a cutie!!! I don't care if people say he can't act, sing, or dance. His heartwarming smile is enough to leave me starstruck! Love Struck (Okay, I think my sisters and my friends are going to disown me now!) It was definitely a fun night (not to mention I was sitting in the VIP section -- a mere 15 feet away from Rainier!), but it would have been better if I had experienced it with equally starstruck friends who would scream and be kilig with me!

Tomorrow is the start of another week at work. We're brainstorming for the next issue and I'll get a chance to attend some photo shoots. I just hope I get over the "new kid syndrome" soon. It's ironic how working in Summit may seem like the "safe" choice because it's so near my house and a lot of people are from my school... but the truth is, it's a great leap from my comfort zone. It requires me to be more assertive and independent. It may not be as far as Singapore, but I don't have the fellows to rely on here, I must rely on myself. It's time to let the Sagittarius side of me emerge! After all, I'm a Candy girl now! Til the next update!

Cruisin' with Celebs: Me and popular Pinoy band, Parokya ni Edgar. March 19, 2005.

Saturday, March 12, 2005

Bicol CLC: Transforming Lives

The region of Bicol, located in the east central part of the Philippine Islands, is considered to be the second poorest region in the country. Its vast farmlands, rich natural resources, and smiling people, however, would make you believe otherwise. My adventure begins on the eve of March 3, 2005. Together with six graduating seniors from the Ateneo Christian Life Community (ACLC), I boarded a bus going to Naga City and embarked on an exciting journey.

Being a member of ACLC for four years largely defined my college life. It's a place where I matured as a person, developed my relationship with God, and formed deep and lasting friendships. Now that I have graduated, it is time to discern about whether or not I want to continue the way of life that I have tried to live out for the past four years. The trip to Bicol was a chance for my friends and I to be exposed to the larger CLC community and to help us discern about our commitment to CLC.

Mayor with a Cause
We arrived in Naga in the wee hours of the following morning. We were greeted by Mr. Sabas Mabulo, or "Mayor Abang" as he is fondly called. He brought us to the nearby town of San Fernando, where he grew up and which he now presides over. After resting and settling in, he brought us to the municipal office where he told us about the projects he has done for the town, such as building extensive roads and water systems. Being a CLCer, he tries his best to live out the way of life amidst his battles against the NPA, jueteng, and other maladies that come with traditional politics. It has been said that in order to change the world, we must first begin with ourselves and our sphere of influence. Mayor Abang may be a simple man living in a small town, but it is truly impressive how he has made a difference in the lives of his 27,000 constituents, as well as in the lives of the people he meets everyday. (To read more about Mayor Abang and his town, click here.)


Clockwise from left: Mayor Abang, Son-J, Deacon Stan, Ate Salve,
Pearl, Angel, Kekek, Eugo, and Alfie. March 4, 2005.

The Maangas Fisherfolk
Our next stop was to the small, far-flung town of Maangas, a two-hour car ride and a 45-minute boat ride away from Naga City. This time, our guide was Deacon Stan, a veteran CLCer who formed several CLC communities among the fisherfolk, farmers, and indigenous peoples in Bicol. On our first night there, we were amazed because when we looked up, the sky was dotted with a million stars. Without the bright lights of the city, the stars were able to shine in all their splendor and glory. We could actually feel that we were in the Milky Way!

The next morning, we walked around the town and met the members of the CLC community in the area. They talked about their daily problems and concerns - poverty, lack of good education, lack of health services, and others. Amidst all of these, however, they never lacked in hospitality and good cheer. They told us of their experiences with CLC and how it has gradually changed their lives over the last three years. Pay Billy and May Ason, the elders of the community, told us about a time when food was scarce in the village and they gave away their last two bags of rice to the community. Simple and down to earth, their only request was that we remember them once in a while and help them in any way we can.

Of course, the visit would not be complete without a swim in the beach. Later that day, we rode a boat to a nearby island that had smooth white sand and beautiful seashells.


The view from Aguirangan Island. March 4, 2005.

Grass Art: A Testament to Philippine Ingenuity
On the way home from Maangas, we passed by the town of Pili where we met CLCer Mike Dychinco. He and his wife, Dinah, own a business that exports products to countries such as Australia and the U.S. We had the chance to tour their factory and see how their amazing products were made. Employing over a hundred workers and using natural raw materials found only in Bicol, Kuya Mike and Ate Dinah truly make the region proud.


Can you believe that cute little raccoon is made of grass? March 5, 2005.

Naga Pro: A True CLC Community
That night, we had dinner with the Naga Pro community, of which Mayor Abang and his wife, Ate Melyn, are a part. They have been together since their college days in Ateneo de Naga and have dedicated their lives to improving the Bicol region by putting up the Pagbicol Foundation, a non-government organization, and by striving to live out the CLC way of life in their different lines of work. It's amazing how openly we were sharing stories with each other, given that we had only met most of them that night.

Kuya Allan told us the story of how his kidney failed him a few years back. The person who donated his new kidney was Ate Salve, his unitmate. Together, they endured frequent trips to Manila to undergo a battery of tests, which were both physically and emotionally draining. Indeed, it was a lot for Ate Salve to undergo, considering she is not even his blood relative. And yet, being brother and sister in Christ, she gave her kidney wholeheartedly and told us her story with enthusiasm. As Ate Salve quips, "Kung walang community life, it's the end of my life!"

Ate Nancy told us of how her positive actions affect others in her workplace, while Ate Nhorie related how her husband eventually came to join their community after years of struggle. Mayor Abang further explained about how his community encouraged him to run for public office but kept him grounded at the same time. It's admirable how they are able to impart the CLC way of life with others, not by preaching about it (because you can never really explain what it is), but by showing it through their actions.

When we asked them for advice on how we can make our own units as stable and prolific as theirs, they told us the following: 1) Set a permanent time and place to meet; 2) Have a common activity; and most importantly, 3) Wag Bibitiw. Don't let go and don't give up on each other. As Kuya Allan said, "I am an ordinary person living in an extraordinary community." Indeed, they may be simple and ordinary individuals but being a part of the CLC community allows them to lead extraordinary lives.


ACLCers and the Naga Pro Community. March 5, 2005.

Transforming Lives
The following day was another busy day for all of us. After hearing mass in San Fernando Parish, we conducted a recollection for more than twenty kids in Sa Harong ni Lord Retreat House. It was a fun event filled with games, story-telling, and other activities. In the evening, my six companions and I were distributed among the different members of the CLC farmers' community. I stayed in the home of Tatay Lito and Nanay Julie, who told me about how they were able to send their seven kids to school and uplift their lives through hard work and determination. Nanay Julie also told me of her experiences with the CLC community, how she has learned to appreciate and understand the gospel more, and how it has also transformed her own life.

Living in a predominantly Catholic country, Filipinos have always been criticized for using their faith as an excuse to accept their lot and to remain in the throes of poverty. After interacting with the different CLC communities of Bicol, however, it is evident that our faith, when taken to heart, can not only transform lives but can also transform society. Whether it is in a poor fishing village who struggles against economic and natural forces, a wealthy businessman who brings pride to his region, or a group of people who have dedicated their lives to living like Christ, these simple CLCers have transformed their own spheres of influence and many lives have been made better because of it. If all Filipinos did this, then imagine what an even greater country this would be!

Sightseeing Galore
Our final day in Bicol was spent going around the province of Camarines Sur. We visited the Cagsawa Ruins situated at the foot of Mt. Mayon, the volcano with a near-perfect cone. We went to the church that houses the miraculous Lady of Peñafrancia and we also got the chance to visit Ateneo de Naga. Of course, the trip would not be complete without shopping for food and souvenirs to bring home to our family and friends.


Cagsawa Ruins. March 7, 2005.

Our trip to Bicol was certainly an enlightening and grace-filled experience. Seeing how generously the different CLC communities give of themselves certainly makes the decision to commit to CLC a more challenging and thought provoking one. I am thankful to my companions, Kekek, Eugo, Alfie, Jody, Pearl, and Son-J for being with me on this journey; to ACLC for organizing the trip; and to Deacon Stan, Naga Pro, and the fisherfolk and farmer communities for generously hosting us.

Thank you too for sharing the experience with us by reading this entry. Your comments are most welcome! (To view more pictures of our Bicol adventures, click here.)

Tuesday, March 01, 2005

A Time for New Adventures

Around this time last year, I graduated with honors from a reputable university in the Philippines. I had a clean slate once again and the future awaited with open arms. However, no amount of studying, socializing, planning or praying could have prepared me for the months that came after. I was literally a lost soul. I could not properly enjoy the summer months after graduation because I was jumping from one job interview to another and worrying about whether or not I would get a job that I would enjoy, or that would pay a decent salary, for that matter. As I sat in front of the television during my Friends, 24, and CSI DVD marathons during those hot summer months, I feared the unknown and I felt anxious about the lack of stability and familiarity that I had grown accustomed to in college.

Fortunately, around June, I found out that I had been accepted to the SIF-ASEAN Student Fellowship 2004. It was a program sponsored by the Singapore International Foundation that allowed me to study in a Singapore university for one semester, interact with students from different ASEAN countries, and travel around the ASEAN region. The program was just what I needed to get me out of the rut I was in. After a flurry of despedida parties, I flew to Singapore filled with hope and enthusiasm. My stint in Singapore was certainly an unforgettable and momentous experience. I built relationships with amazing people, took risks, and did things I had never done before.

Going back to the Philippines after five months in Singapore was tough for I terribly missed the people I had grown to love. But coming home was also good because it allowed me to catch up with my family and old friends. For the past two months of the new year, I have done nothing but go out for lunch, dinner, movies and weekend trips with old friends, and e-mail or chat with the new friends I left behind. Now, exactly a year after graduation, I am ready to enter the work force and embark on my next adventure.
I just hope that this year will be as memorable as the last. Winky



A view of the crater lake inside Taal Volcano. February 26, 2005. Posted by Hello